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flordahboi
12-23-2006, 09:04 PM
When I was 17 I got in trouble after my dad died and I had to see a psychiatrist and was diagnosed with depression, severe anxiety, problems with authority, and anger problems. I saw a psychiatrist for the problems for a little while but as I got older, the anxiety just got worse. Now I'm 22. I'm still getting in trouble alot. I use to drink every day and do drugs, but I don't anymore. Now I just drink every once in a while. But my anxiety is so bad where I have a hard time going out places at all. Like I have a hard time talking to a cashier or talking to a waitress or waiter at a restaurant or even my manager at work. Sometimes it doesn't even matter who I'm talking to. My heart will start beating really fast and before I speak my throat tightens up and it feels like I don't have enough air in my lungs to speak and my speech comes out all messed up or sometimes I just can't speak at all. When I get like this I also get really tired because my mind is always racing around about things like I'm in my own little world and away from everyone else. I can't help it. No matter what I do I still get like this. I'm beginning to think I might just need some kind of medication. I hate it because it keeps me from going out and doing things because I'm afraid of not being able to speak and embarassing myself. Sometimes I feel weird when I'm just walking alone by myself in public places too like people are watching me. I guess this might be some kind of social phobia? I don't have the kind of money I would need to speak with a psychiatrist like I probably should about it and I'd be too embarassed to talk to one anyways. I'm 22 and I should have already grown out of being shy by now. I know I'm not shy. I just don't know what's wrong with me. It's like im stuck in a daydream whenever I get like this or when go to public places sometimes. Its even kept me from going to college because I don't like being around a bunch of people I don't know in a classroom and if I'm asked to read something out loud I start panicking or if I have to do a presentation in front of the class I start having a panick attack every time.

Purple98Lady
12-23-2006, 09:25 PM
Hi flordahboi

Sorry to hear about the death of your dad first. The lost of a parent has got to be most devastating next to a child, neither I can thankfully say I had to experience. I hope the trouble you get in isn't too serious. Maybe if you see your primary physician he can give you medications to help with your depression, anxiety etc. Then you can work on going out and speaking ito people in public.
Theres a exciting life out there you should be a part of. Good luck to you and let us know how you do.

purple98lady